7 Principles

Solve Your Solvable Problems. This principle involves developing effective communication and problem-solving skills to address the everyday issues that arise in any relationship.

Involves learning how to manage and resolve conflicts that are recurring and seem impossible to solve. Gridlock occurs when a couple's underlying values or beliefs are in conflict, leading to arguments that never seem to get resolved. These conflicts can cause feelings of frustration, anger, and resentment in a relationship.

By creating shared meaning and rituals, couples can deepen their connection and strengthen their bond. Whether it's through shared values, traditions, or experiences, creating shared meaning is an essential aspect of a successful and satisfying marriage.

This principle emphasizes the importance of building and maintaining trust and commitment in your relationship, which is crucial for a healthy and long-lasting partnership.